"9. I don’t want to rape you-EVER! I also don’t want to be around you-hardly ever. Except when I want some physical interaction (sex, shsssh!). Other than that; I see no cost-benefit analysis that favors anything else with you. You have become a clear and present danger to me personally (false rap claims, sexual harassment charges). To marry you is a guarantee to a divorce or a life replete with misery and pain; or both.