tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post2311041770415589133..comments2023-09-18T04:52:34.622-07:00Comments on Shining Pearls of Something: Anonymous Lettersuzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07599102235797825599noreply@blogger.comBlogger370125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-9217876490318402612014-04-02T05:13:22.059-07:002014-04-02T05:13:22.059-07:00What a bunch of (typically anonymous) nonsense. Wh...What a bunch of (typically anonymous) nonsense. Who is teaching whom that "one gender is responsible for all the ills in the world?" Your outraged assumptions and knee-jerk personal offense are exactly what I expect of feminist raised women whose non-rational thoughts and rants have been validated by a gynocentric society since birth. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06896718673192738974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-40008081261856965802014-04-02T03:02:38.481-07:002014-04-02T03:02:38.481-07:00What a delusional and ugly post. I feel sorry for ...What a delusional and ugly post. I feel sorry for your son, and I don't mean that in a nasty way. I mean it genuinely because you're raising him badly if you're teaching him that one gender is responsible for all the ills in the world. Men and women have equally contributed to the mess we live in and if men found it so awful, they would, as a body change it, after all most of the political and financial power is in male hands. But why change anything when there are woman like you who blame women for being left, being beaten and the alimony which only results from men having more money and being paid better than women to begin with. Before feminism you would have owned no property and had no education so you wouldn't have been able to write this nonsense in the first place and the sort men who crowd on here to encourage you would have kept you locked up and smacked you if you stepped out of line. The only downside to the sacrifice of those who fight and die for freedom is that they must also bestow it on the undeserving. There are examples of countries without feminism all over the world, Saudi, Afghanistan etc. I wish for you the sort of life you wish for other women. It will be much worse than you imagine.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-21990158905312855832014-02-23T13:42:24.706-08:002014-02-23T13:42:24.706-08:00I have read and pondered this column for some time...I have read and pondered this column for some time. And, as the father of two girls brought up in this hyper-feminist era, I can say without qualification that everything Suz says is true. <br /><br />I see it in my own girls, and in the way that the boys interact with them. No amount of reasoning or gentle comment on my part seems to be able to sway them from this path - it's what they assume is the new reality is as far as male/female relationships go in Amerika. <br /><br />The new reality, I am afraid, is something quite different. And it is something that will almost guarantee that they will grow old alone, I will never have grandchildren, and they will look back on barren and unfulfilled lives.<br /><br />But at least I tried.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-20191376681691633072013-05-28T03:55:38.018-07:002013-05-28T03:55:38.018-07:00(Most) "Women are not sluts and bitches"...(Most) "Women are not sluts and bitches"???? REALLY??? I did not know that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-28693203315881533962013-05-16T15:06:18.773-07:002013-05-16T15:06:18.773-07:00Sharing a little story: When I was little, every n...Sharing a little story: When I was little, every night my dad would tuck me in and discuss with me the importance of being able to fend for myself in the world. He was concerned that if I ever ended up in an abusive relationship, that I wouldn't have to means to leave and support myself. He valued respect, kindess, and always trying your best. Through his lessons I've learned the importance of maintaining my physical and mental health, I've gained a humble confidence, financial independence, an education, a great career I've earned through hard work and by working well with others. I have respect for my body, strong beliefs about the equal treatment and respect of others. Well, I'm turning 29 this weekend, and perhaps because of my trusting judgement of character when I was younger and values of commitment, I've only had 2 boyfriends (7 years and 4 years) and both men were unfaithful. I have never cheated, and ended up financially supporting both of my partners at one time or another. Both regret cheating and wanted to get back together with me, and their families still have close relationships with me because we've built strong friendships - they hoped I would one day marry their sons and were very disappointed in their sons moral decisions. I guess I just wanted to share my story to let you know that there are exceptions to the rule. A father can teach his daughter to be respectful, self-sufficient, humble yet confident, to lead a healthy lifestyle, and to have the strength to be independent when she can't find a faithful man to share her life with. I attribute the strength my father taught me to giving me the courage to leave the men that didn't treat me with equal respect. The search continues for both sides I guess.Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15902281547352960244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-72734783167489740032013-05-16T14:57:52.120-07:002013-05-16T14:57:52.120-07:00Sharing a little story: When I was little, every n...Sharing a little story: When I was little, every night my dad would tuck me in and discuss with me the importance of being able to fend for myself in the world. He was concerned that if I ever ended up in an abusive relationship, that I wouldn't have to means to leave and support myself. He valued respect, kindess, and always trying your best. Through his lessons I've learned the importance of maintaining my physical and mental health, I've gained a humble confidence, financial independence, an education, a great career I've earned through hard work and by working well with others. I have respect for my body, strong beliefs about the equal treatment and respect of others. Well, I'm turning 29 this weekend, and perhaps because of my trusting judgement of character when I was younger and values of commitment, I've only had 2 boyfriends (7 years and 4 years) and both men were unfaithful. I have never cheated, and ended up financially supporting both of my partners at one time or another. Both regret cheating and wanted to get back together with me, and their families still have close relationships with me because we've built strong friendships - they hoped I would one day marry their sons and were very disappointed in their sons moral decisions. I guess I just wanted to share my story to let you know that there are exceptions to the rule. A father can teach his daughter to be respectful, self-sufficient, humble yet confident, to lead a healthy lifestyle, and to have the strength to be independent when she can't find a faithful man to share her life with. I attribute the strength my father taught me to giving me the courage to leave the men that didn't treat me with equal respect. The search continues for both sides I guess.Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15902281547352960244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-4590296299095582982013-04-04T14:44:01.896-07:002013-04-04T14:44:01.896-07:00I disagree with this not just because pretty much ...I disagree with this not just because pretty much your entire argument is based on generalisations, and, IMO wrong,but in the comments you said:<br /><br />"Women depend on men for their wealth [...] Men have been footing the bill because men are willing to work harder than women".<br /><br />You also implied the inadequacy of single mothers. Not only is that incredibly offensive (how do you feel about single fathers?)but it's untrue. My father cheated on my mother for 5 years before she finally kicked him out. She is the one who pays the rent, who pays for the family, who pays for everything. My father has given nothing and she never asked him for anything. She works about 12 hours a day. Clearly dependent on men.<br /><br />Also, you claimed women only have important positions because of the threat of a sexual harassment lawsuit. Do you honestly believe that?<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-70024362450261700952013-02-20T20:23:39.208-08:002013-02-20T20:23:39.208-08:00Come back in ten years and tell me that. What you...Come back in ten years and tell me that. What you don't understand (and certainly haven't been taught) is that feminism is a huge part of what brought this culture into being. If you are a decent girl, and they certainly exist, and you want to marry a decent man, I feel very sorry for your greatly reduced opportunities to do so. Most of the men who will want to marry anyone, are feminized to the point that you won't be attracted to them. Many of the truly masculine ones won't take the legal and emotional risks. This situation will get much worse over the next few decades. Just remember though, if not for feminism, it wouldn't be happening at all. <br /><br />Good luck.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06896718673192738974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-68113637413314108092013-02-20T19:38:47.387-08:002013-02-20T19:38:47.387-08:00I... am not sure how to reply to this. I feel very...I... am not sure how to reply to this. I feel very sorry for you if those are the only type of women you see, and for your son if he can't see the worthwhile women out there. Because WE ARE OUT THERE!!!! <br />I do not appreciate you lumping all women in together saying how it is all our fault, that the men have done no wrong, because that is ridiculous. All people make mistakes, and it is both genders that have managed to screw up society and morality. Extremists of any kind only do harm, no good. And either sex going around and having a bunch of sex is wrong and stupid. <br />And you say the 'Male Privilege' doesn't exist? Yes it does, just like the crazy 'Empowered Woman' and 'Grrl Power' you mentioned. The males of the world are not perfect and understanding and the victims in every circumstance. Studies have shown that men are still the more domineering and aggressive of the genders, in crimes and abuse as well as daily activities/entertainment. Certainly more women are today than ever before, but they have yet to beat men in that respect.<br />Yes, some women are abusive. Men are abusive too. And some of the families with no dad? It is because the dad walked out - because he no longer wanted the responsibility, because he found a young hot thing to take better care of his 'needs'. And its not like the married men were FORCED to get married, they chose that. I feel sorry for anyone who enters and stays in an abusive relationship. The women were not the only ones to make the mistake.<br />And some guys out there just are lazy, stupid jerks because they feel because they are guys, or because of just whatever, that they are entitled to whatever they want. Men and women are 'slutty' and 'easy', not just the girls.<br />Yes, women want equality - for some jobs men are still paid more than women for the same work, or are treated like they are weak and incapable. And I know men need equality as well so that they are NOT blamed for sexual harassment/rape claims that are untrue, so that they are not seen as weak or pathetic if they decide to be a stay-at-home-dad while mom works. I know there are a lot more reasons and unfairness on both sides, these are just what are coming to mind right now. Both sides have different ideas as to what equality is, which is a big problem.<br />I was raised in a Christian home with my Dad as the head of the household, my mom is stay-at-home (though both work now that my dad has retired from the military), and we were disciplined and brought up with, honestly, higher morals and sense of responsibility than much of what I see in society today. I am independent, I respect men and women, and I appreciate a gentleman and chivalrous acts, but also appreciate being able to do things myself. <br />I hope and pray that your son, who sounds like a decent guy, does not fall into the trap of sleeping with a bunch of women just because he feels he is certain to not find the right one right away(yes, I believe in saving oneself for marriage), and that he will not be taken advantage of by anyone, men and women both.<br />I also hope that you will be able to see the respectable and pure women of the world, not just focusing on the negative and bad examples. I keep my hopes alive because I do my best to focus on the good and try to see the good in the bad, for me how I choose to look at things greatly determines how I am affected.<br />I know this was long and rambly, and not 'organized' really, but I hope you and anyone who reads will understand what I was trying to say. It is no one person, one gender's fault. And we will never be able to improve if people keep thinking that. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-792561420228328142013-02-20T16:37:30.889-08:002013-02-20T16:37:30.889-08:00Oh how cute! I now have Tumblr Feminists.
"I...Oh how cute! I now have Tumblr Feminists.<br />"I'm offended!"<br />"NAWALT!"<br />"You're so mean!"Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06896718673192738974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-11323711150133033732013-02-20T16:27:24.157-08:002013-02-20T16:27:24.157-08:00I am a 25 year old woman, and honestly this post h...I am a 25 year old woman, and honestly this post has offended me. Everything I see in this post, is the opposite of how I have lived and grown up. My father is the one who leads our household and he served in the military. I have respect for men who deserve it, and a great respect for the military. My mother and father taught me Christian values and I am saving my virginity for marriage (by my choice, because it is a precious gift and I hope I can find a man who has held the same courtesy) as are most of my female friends and all my sisters (and brother and his girlfriend). You have put 99% women into your 'all or nothing' arena, and don't give credit to the ones who don't live in this lifestyle. I know many MANY people who are the opposite of what you wrote. Men who are chivalrous and women who are appreciative of them. Also, you're hypocritical stance on women having sex with many men, and then men have sex with many women is horrendous. Both are wrong. It is wrong to do that no matter your gender and no matter the reason. You're stance loses credibility when you place hypocrisy and stereotypes on such a pedestal.<br />I believe there is something to be given from both men and women on equal measure. Men do have their part, as do women but they play together for the better of both and neither is less important than the other. I also agree that there are women out there who are like you described, and it drives me CRAZY! Men also act like this however, that because they have a penis they are better than women and they must bow before them. Abuse also comes from both genders to both genders, which is wrong and horrific. I wouldn't have minded if you had said, 'women who are like this' but you generalized your hate about those women who are like this, upon all your sex. I understand this is your opinion, but I think you should word it differently since there are many women and men in America (and the world) who contradict this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-27665613081377075142013-02-20T14:59:11.507-08:002013-02-20T14:59:11.507-08:00My reply can be found here: Since, (like my self-w...My reply can be found here: Since, (like my self-worth) it won't fit in the little box you've created for me. http://roarkshop.tumblr.com/post/43595678671/anonymous-letter-for-a-future-daughter-in-law<br /><br />Before women were free not to "repress their sexuality", men were trouncing around having sex with whomever they chose, every notch in the belt equating to a high-five, and every broken heart equating to a proud father. Now I'm not saying that women suddenly doing this is a good thing, lowering ourselves to the level men are at simply because we can is not the answer. But calling women sluts for doing it while calling men studs for doing it... that's sexist... whether you like it or not. <br /><br />Feminism isn't about "It's my vagina I do what I want", it's about equality. It's about getting paid the same wages to do the same work, it's about the same rights, and the same treatment all across the board. You say that men stay late and work harder and get paid the same and that's not fair, but maybe that is only true for one man. If a woman was suddenly paid more for working harder and staying later, that would not fly. Men do not work harder than women: Some people work harder than others, and that is always the way it will be.<br /><br />You make me very sad. Roarkshophttp://www.roarkshop.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-35378981843642088522013-02-06T18:06:47.604-08:002013-02-06T18:06:47.604-08:00For everyone involved, I think it best you never h...For everyone involved, I think it best you never have a daughter-in-law.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-62976625496449114322013-02-06T11:20:16.319-08:002013-02-06T11:20:16.319-08:00you sound charming. :|you sound charming. :|Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-56314207588072969022013-02-06T10:24:24.660-08:002013-02-06T10:24:24.660-08:00Trololololololol!Trololololololol!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-83569382681941126522013-01-14T19:26:38.501-08:002013-01-14T19:26:38.501-08:00You must be young; you're very naive. Read al...You must be young; you're very naive. Read all the comments. I'll answer your last statement:<br />Natural "gender roles" ("gender" being a feminist word for "sex") served men and women quite well from the dawn of our species, right up until feminists decided they weren't haaaapy about how good women had it. It is the feminists redefining sex roles, that have screwed men and women. Everything you know about what happened in this world before you were born, has been taught to you through the feminist viewpoint, which is based on lies.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06896718673192738974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-73184798717547522372013-01-14T12:35:42.592-08:002013-01-14T12:35:42.592-08:00Oh wow, this is sexist towards women in so many di...Oh wow, this is sexist towards women in so many different ways and it's sad because you're actually a woman yourself. Painting women as worthless and generalizing about them? How is that NOT sexist? If I did the same thing to a man, you would be freaking out. <br />In addition to this, many of your arguments aren't just sexist but blatantly wrong. Since when have we lived in a society where women are sexually liberated? I don't know what world you live in but if a woman dresses provocatively or has sex when she's not dating a guy (even if she's single and NOT actually cheating on someone, you know what she is? A SLUT. It's a BAD thing for a woman to sleep around. A guy? He's a PLAYER. It's a GOOD thing for him to sleep around. So, in that regard, women aren't sexually liberated in the slightest. When you mentioned child support, I agree to a degree. Men shouldn't have the short end of the stick by default in custody cases; the better parent should get primary custody of the child. But, as for unplanned pregnancies, it takes two to tango. If he agrees to have sex with a woman, he needs to accept the possible consequences of that decision. It is HER body so it's not like you can force her to get an abortion or anything or stop her from getting one. As for custody, I believe he should have equal access to custody as the baby's mother (assuming he's a fit parent) but if he doesn't want to see the kid, he still has to chip in because it's HIS KID. <br />You mention that women throw the word "rape" around easily. Again, I seriously don't know what world you live in. When a guy or a girl accuses anyone of any gender of rape, the odds are stacked up against them. The court will think they were "asking for it" somehow. There are many, many more rapists that go free than there are men falsely accused of rape. The problem isn't when two drunk people have sex because they're both equally as able to consent; it's when a sober person has sex with a drunk person(sometimes even unconscious person). <br />Yeah, there are really, really bitchy women. I won't argue with that. There are girls that use guys and wring their hearts like towels. But the same goes for guys. "Nice guys" who gripe about the girls never liking them usually are in that predicament for the following reasons: 1) They're not going after nice girls! They screw over the "nice girl" who has a crush over them for the "bad girl". Same as the situation you explained but the other way around, 2) They're needy and clingy because they're insecure and lonely, putting WAY too much baggage on a girl or 3) he's jealous. So girls liking "bad boys" is only one part of the larger problem. <br />I don't understand why MRAs and feminists have to be on two separate playing fields. Gender roles have pretty much screwed men and women both over in various ways, so why can't we work together to get rid of them? ToriDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15863422574245111637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-75119356102257332152013-01-13T22:24:05.719-08:002013-01-13T22:24:05.719-08:00Female dominance is not inherently bad, but it'...Female dominance is not inherently bad, but it's almost always bad in a heterosexual relationship, for two reasons:<br />The vast majority of women aren't made for dominance; we don't have the mental make-up for it. True dominance is hard, steady, wearing work, and most women aren't good at it. Many women attempt it and wind up being domineering instead. Domineering isn't stable; it's capricious and unpredictable - just look at insecure young guys "gaming" women by creating a facade of dominance, and abusive people of both sexes. They wouldn't be abusive if they had the dominance to actually lead (rather than demanding that people follow.) I personally subscribe to the "Captain/First Mate" model recommended by Athol Kay in Married Man Sex Life. Read the blog and buy the book. He explains the dynamics of attraction (which constantly fluctuates in every relationship) very well. If you're a devout Christian, pay no heed to his atheism, which he does't really discuss anyway - he "gets" Biblical marriage better than most Christians.<br /><br />Here's something I wrote I wrote on dominance. It was a comment on another blog, and "Taken in Hand" asked me if they could publish is as a post. It's just an opinion, like this letter, but it seems to resonate with a lot of people:<br /><br />http://www.takeninhand.com/do.women.really.want.to.defeat.men <br /><br />And attraction is the other reason why female dominance is usually a bad idea. Masculine men aren't attracted to masculine women, and dominance is an inherently masculine trait. Society now says otherwise, and look at the result - millions of shaky (or downright miserable) marriages with no leadership, due to a constant subtle struggle for dominance.<br />If you are interested in the reality of sex roles, don't listen to anything said by feminists or mainstream media (or textbooks, for that matter.) Every aspect of modern feminism is based on two big fat lies. One is that "Gender is a social construct." Bull. Humans did not consciously invent sex roles; sex roles are a combination of biology and choice, and when one's choices strongly contradict one's biology, there is constant internal conflict. (The stereotype of the "bitter aging feminist cat-lady is actually pretty common. They don't blame feminism, they blame everything BUT feminism.)<br /><br />The other lie is a combination of "Male Privilege" and "The Patriarchy." Patriarchy benefits the upper classes at the expense of the lower classes; it does not benefit men at the expense of women. And for that reason, there is no such thing as "Male Privilege." There is only male obligation - to risk death on the battlefield and on the job, in order to protect the wombs of the women who give birth to the next generation of cheap, disposable labor.<br /><br />Want your mind blown? Listen to "Girl Writes What?" on Youtube. She's a bisexual mother of teenagers, and a former feminist. She is one of the smartest women on the planet! <br /><br />If you're interested in the legal and practical issues of sex roles, read AVoiceforMen.com. I do volunteer work for them, exposing corruption in feminist-dominated courts.<br /><br />A lot of younger women are catching on to the failure of feminism, and if you understand the changes that are starting to happen, you will have a leg up on most of your peers. But I have to warn you, if you look at the issues honestly, you will be considered a traitor to your sisters. There are literally billions of dollars and millions of jobs at stake, and highly placed feminist leaders DO NOT WANT to lose control of all that wealth. (They're on the verge of losing it anyway, and the fight is getting very ugly.)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06896718673192738974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-88250231508731801882013-01-13T21:27:13.385-08:002013-01-13T21:27:13.385-08:00Very interesting. I've been contemplating soci...Very interesting. I've been contemplating social norms a lot recently, and the effects of gender roles is something I never took much notice of before. I really appreciate your response. <br /><br />If you are a woman, why do you think female dominance is bad? <br />Do you think relationships should reach a power equilibrium or that men should be the one and only alpha? <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-12527409823963597832013-01-10T22:06:27.929-08:002013-01-10T22:06:27.929-08:00This post was intentionally inflammatory, but it d...This post was intentionally inflammatory, but it doesn't claim that all women "are like that," and that there is no hope for the future of decent men and women. I does say that all women are ENCOURAGED, by our gynocentric and consumerist culture, to be "like that." I would suggest that if you took it personally, that is partly due to a society that protects your feelings and coddles you - because you're female. (Society protects males' feelings a whole lot less.) If the letter doesn't apply to you, you shouldn't be offended by it, but feeling offended is a national pastime for girls and women; you have never been taught to "man up."<br /><br />If you really aren't like that (and a lot of girls your age aren't) don't follow the herd, and don't make excuses for girls who are like that. If you want to marry a good man, you must remember that good men have lots of choices. And those choices include countless flashy sluts who are giving it away. That can be tough competition, rather like the "nice guys" who are totally invisible to most women throughout their twenties, because they must compete with studly playas. <br /><br />If you want the kind of marriage your parents have, I strongly recommend marrying young, and marrying a man 6-10 years your senior. Don't become a slut. Very few men will expect to marry a virgin, but promiscuity indicates low self respect, poor judgement and greater potential for infidelity, in a future wife. Start college full time if a degree is your goal (and skip the "college experience." Take extra classes, including summer and J-term) but marry around age 20 or 21 if your husband is financially stable (which at that age, he should be.) Have children immediately and devote your most energetic years to being a full-time mother. Continue your education part-time, and gain experience in your field part time, while raising your family. By the time you are ready to pursue a full-time career, you will likely be in your early forties, have a variety of experience under your belt, and you will have a refreshingly mature and stable attitude. You also won't have potential employers *thinking* about the "mommy track," even though they are legally required to ignore its existence. If you plan to work in a predominantly male field, these traits will be HIGHLY valued.<br /><br />In order to avoid becoming an Entitled American Princess, always bear in mind that a decent man (and everything he does for you) is never to be taken for granted. Chivalry is not a one-way street. A husband is not an ego-massager, an ATM, an assistant housekeeper, or an assistant babysitter. If he works to keep you out of poverty, and is not malicious or abusive, he is the head of the household, and deserves the respect that he works hard for. Most of your female peers, even the "Christian" ones, will be appalled by the very idea of female submission, because they have been taught to see it as weakness. It's not.<br /><br />You are young and you have a choice: be "like that" or don't. Your actions will influence your outcomes.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06896718673192738974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-73300989838291328312013-01-10T21:06:01.050-08:002013-01-10T21:06:01.050-08:00I am a 15 year old girl, and as I read your post, ...I am a 15 year old girl, and as I read your post, I feel hurt. Is there no hope for my future? Am I boxed into this category of terrible women and stuck there forever? I have had boyfriends who broke up with me because I was not ready to have sex with them. I have a dad who is still married to my mother and makes most of the decisions in my house. I have high hopes for my future to join science and medicine research, a field with a predominant presence of men. I want to find a partner who I love just as much as he loves me and spend the rest of our lives together in a mutually giving relationship. I do not expect anything other than love in return for mine. I think you have accurate points for a certain group of women, but is it really fair to generalize all women this way? Where do I fit into this stereotype of horrid women? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-45181122909440527922013-01-10T06:53:16.500-08:002013-01-10T06:53:16.500-08:00Thanks for the letter. People in America and Europ...Thanks for the letter. People in America and Europe are just start to realize whats going on. In Europe espacially in Germany it is such a low birth rate that this problem will be evicted by nature. I dont like woman who favor agressive dominant male over handsome think before you act guys. Their children are also agressive and agressive personalities are developed over lots of generations and lead to agressive societies. As a german I solved the problem by taking a foreign woman. Staying alone is a bad option for me.<br />----<br />Dependence on the government, instead of on men, isn't really "independence" now, is it? Particularly when so much of the tax revenue with which the government supports women, is earned by MEN. <br />---<br />Thats true we middel class men feed the children of agressive german and foreign people in our country. Thats just modern slavery but also the Holy Roman Empire went down.<br /><br />The majority of my pals who married a german woman end up in a situation where shes in charge. Her family first, where to make vacation and he has to give up his social circle. Those guys can be seen in shopping malls or anywhere they are like robots controlled by woman commands and you can not just easy talk to them. <br /><br />To come back to your situation here is a phrase of my mom: If you have a daughter you win a son after marriage. If you have a son you lose him after marriage.<br /> <br />Thats true for lots of people I know its kind of scaring.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-18361586572677937002013-01-07T12:53:52.972-08:002013-01-07T12:53:52.972-08:00I am a 28yr old black male. I've done pretty w...I am a 28yr old black male. I've done pretty well for myself and have a career in the power industry. But the problem in the black community IS feminism, and its effort to devolve society back to matriarchy. The black community is just where it is the most complete. I didn't get it until I read this:<br /><br />http://www.fathermag.com/news/Case_for_Father_Custody.pdf<br /><br />This degradation of the black community at large is due to the welfare state making men less useful to women. In the ghetto is where you hear the loudest, "I don't need no man!", as they live off "Big Daddy" government, who requires no reciprocal obligation of them for the support...like fidelity and loyalty and sharing their control of their kids and life with a man. Now imagine being a little impressionable black boy seeing momma kick daddy out while saying that. Add on a parade of men throughout his childhood. What does that teach him about his value to women and society? It was once said, "Fathers are necessary to teach boys how to channel their natural aggression." So, now you have boys who don't know what to do but be thugs, because they have no good (or even mediocre) male role model to teach them how to deal with this uniquely male aggression. Now think of the little girls, seeing their mom do this, are almost destined to repeat the process next generation. Thus you have the ghetto and welfare state. After I rolled this around in my head a bit... I figure the best way to restore the black community in the long run is start cutting welfare back until poor (and through social factors, usually ignorant) black women want and need their men to contribute. When getting knocked up means a royal screw job, not a way to survive... they will become choosier about their men and be safer about their sex. Women would be surprised how hard a man will work when he feels and is needed. They will improve in academics and careers when they realize, no good job, no good ass.<br /><br />Another false premise of feminism...(at least in America) that men held women back, and they couldn't do anything. Look up the first woman doctor... 1850 something...long before women even had the right to vote. Look at any old university's first female graduate.... much the same. If enough women asked for it, it got done. The right to vote got brought up several times, but there wasn't a significant number of women asking for it until the 1930's. Every woman's right "fought for" was completely, or majority voted into law by... drum roll.... MEN. It is actually in a man's nature to give a woman what she wants. Men used to be smart enough to tell the difference between what was good to give, and not to give women. This is partially why men took leadership and why it is better for them to be in charge of the household. In general, women have a harder time separating needs from wants, not to mention the desire for immediate satisfaction. Desire in women is a STRONG force. I believe there is a muslim saying that god gave men 1 part of desire and women 7 parts. I didn't get that statement until i started swallowing the red-pill... i thought it mean attractiveness. A desire that strong makes someone prone not to think things out. Women drive consumerism. Watch TV for a few hours, and give out the male\female target commercial ratio. <br /><br />Think about being a single mother with little to nothing, poor as hell. Did you know the founders only gave landowners the right to vote until 1790? Because people with nothing will vote themselves something for nothing. Woman are a LARGE block vote. Ironically, surveys show female voters on average are less informed in politics than men. Most welfare services only benefit... drum roll... women, who use their children like Mutilated Beggars to get sympathy from the public therefore money from the government.Floydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16891071620028307056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-60862017357484027532013-01-07T12:47:46.016-08:002013-01-07T12:47:46.016-08:00Very interesting points, and I would slightly qual...Very interesting points, and I would slightly qualify only one of them:<br />"Before marriage and civilization, men had no place in reproduction beyond sex. Think monkeys or cats." <br />Cats make a poor analogy, because of their higher birth rate (litters) and the speed with which they mature to independence. However, monkeys are a little more analogous.<br /><br />While it is true that men have little to do with reproduction, men have everything to do with the long term chances of survival for their offspring. It is the contributions of men (shelter, more food than can be foraged, etc,) that allowed our species to not only survive, but to flourish. The mental ability to consciously comprehend this, and to plan and cooperate accordingly, is what quite literally created civilization. It is also how we differ from monkeys and other animals. <br /><br />Before (some form of) marriage and civilization, we were probably a slightly different species.<br /><br />Thanks for your comment, and for the link!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06896718673192738974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3697201505856242009.post-76245124656935907292013-01-07T11:40:50.227-08:002013-01-07T11:40:50.227-08:00Okay, first off, I think you should read this, bot...Okay, first off, I think you should read this, both Adreana Langston, and Suz:<br /><br />http://www.fathermag.com/news/Case_for_Father_Custody.pdf<br /><br />I also think you are coming from the false premise that feminism is based on: That women were forced into their role by the "Big Bad Men" in the first place.<br /><br />Before the industrial revolution, most work was physically demanding for 95% of the masses. Most available work women were generally incapable of doing. So marriage resulted. Old marriage was an "Economic Contract". Everyone spouts love now, but until around roughly the Resonance, it was not the primary reason for marriage. This "Contract" was also why the double standard existed. In exchange for a man's surplus labor, a woman shared her surplus "reproductive" ability. A woman maintained chastity until marriage to prove her control of her sexuality and faithfulness. That is why chastity was virtue. By maintaining fidelity in marriage, it guaranteed that her children were his offspring. This allowed him to have kids to help on the farm, and heirs to continue his legacy. Before marriage and civilization, men had no place in reproduction beyond sex. Think monkeys or cats. Note, she shared her "reproductive ability" with him. This means that sex was a wifely duty, and all products of "reproduction" were his. Women were free to leave... but not with the kids because they were his by virtue of the marriage contract. Also marriage required the man to provide for a woman long after her reproductive years are over. This contract was also why you couldn't rape your wife before that court case in 1970 the feminists pushed through. Marriage was considered consent for life, or as long as you lived off of his sweat. This is also why someone raping your wife was considered theft. You are paying for her sexuality with your labor. In a sense, you own her sexuality. This was deliberately misinterpreted by feminists to mean he OWNED her as a person; but traditionally she was always free to leave, but she could not take anything with her. Re-marriage was not allowed for women because that would just promote hypergamy, AKA women leaving for a more attractive man. The ability to have children and participate in reproduction is what motivated men to work harder than just what was necessary to support themselves, creating the surplus necessary for civilization.<br />Since a man's sexuality was NOT part of the contract, his fidelity was not as frowned upon. In many societies marriage was for producing children, mistresses for passion\love.<br /><br />This "contract" created SOCIETY. So when people say marriage is the bedrock of society, it is LITERALLY true. As from one of the articles I read talking about this says, Patriarchy but "Sex" to work and used it as motivation.<br />Floydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16891071620028307056noreply@blogger.com